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My All-Time Favourite


Vikram - Dhool & Dhill
Surya - Kaakha Kaakha & Ghajini
Vijay – Thirumalai & Sivakasi
Vadivelu - Pattali & Chandramukhi
Sathanam - Boss Engiren Bhaskaran & Vaanam
Vivek – Dum Dum Dum & Thenkasi Pattanam

Bhogi Pongal

Bhogi is a festival celebrated on first day of Pongal. On bhogi, people clean their house and all the waste and unwanted things are set on fire. Lets burn unwanted with minimum quantity. Have awareness to save the Earth. Can you imagine some people will take the opportunity to burn rubbish, broken furniture and rubber tyres which emits lot of smoke which affects the environment. I’m not against Bhogi. But at the same time, I say NO to bhogi every year.
On the day of Bhogi I would like to share an interesting article which I came across few years ago. It’s not related to Bhogi or pongal but take it as general knowledge to save the EARTH.

Millions of people die each day on this planet. there is one thing that all funerals have in common: the alarming amount of wood used in the pyres or the coffins. When the body is burnt along with kilos of wood and embalming fluids, an astonishing amount of carbon dioxide, sulfur dioxide and acids are produced, making the carbon footprint bigger and darker.

Green burial is a process wherein a body is returned to the soil in its most natural form sans any coffin or embalming agents. Manufacturing coffins requires cutting down of a large number of trees and the embalming fluids seep into the soil and pollute the water thus disturbing the ecosystem. The body may at the most be wrapped in a bio-degradable material like a sheet or a shroud.

A green cemetery is a place where tombstones are replaced by trees and a forest is born, complete with wildlife, birds and flowers. Nature takes it own course and your loved ones’ body is extended towards a noble cause making them immortal. Since a large chunk of forest area has been destroyed by human encroachment and consumption, green cemeteries come as a welcome change as they create miniature forest ecosystems within the cities and detoxify the atmosphere. The forest needs no maintenance or expense as it thrives on a soil made fertile by decaying organic matter.

It is understandable and obviously expected that after years of following conventional cremation and burial rites; some may not be open this tradition breaking idea. However, just as we are coming to accept organ donation, this concept too, is nothing out of the blue. In the former case, we are helping a human being while in the latter, we are helping nature. The cause is as noble, if not more, that the act of donating organs of your loved ones after their demise. Just like the donated organs are mentioned in the deceased’s will, so can the willingness to undergo a Green Burial. Choosing a Green Burial and discussing it with your family saves your loved ones from a lot of difficulties and hassles of making expensive and time-consuming arrangements for your last rites in their hour of grief. Life may often not give us an opportunity to prove our worth, but death certainly does! It is just a matter of “will”…

I’m not sure if they have such burial in Malaysia, but if they do, I will never hesitate to go for it. Because EDWARD ABBEY Says "One's death should mean something."

2012

Last year "2011", I decided to follow flow of time for my life arrangements. Beginning of 2011 was good. But later, become the sour year. The pain and lost is unbearable. I wish, I could have been extra careful.

Now I welcome 2012 with proper plan and Firm lifestyle. Aiming to improve finances and Increase of healthy lifestyle.

All the while when a “NO” comes from me, I would be begged to compromise and sacrifice. It gives me a hesitation and hate when doing things I don’t agree or like. Always ended up in big arguments, dissatisfaction and frustration.

But now when I Say NO, I stick to it. I really mean it.

28 NOVEMBER 2011

I will never forget the date “ 28th November 2011. the day I suffered lost of my Baby girl. I was 22 week 5 days pregnant when I delivered her. Doctor told my hubby that they will call it a miscarriage if the baby born under 500gram. They would do nothing to save the child even if born alive. They made him sign the papers.

When the baby born, she cry… warded at NICU. 480 gram, still alive. But no support given. It really hurt me a lot. They ignored my pleas and say that the baby's chances of survival are low. It was "very difficult" to predict whether baby would live, die, be healthy or have disabilities later on in life. Because of this uncertainty, they recommends that parents, after a discussion with the healthcare, should have the final say in whether intensive care is given.

My hubby took me to NICU to see her for last time. She hold my finger. Its like she knew I’m there. I could not even call out her name which I choose before she BORN. SAKUNTALA. So painful even to utter her name. That moment I suffered seeing my baby, with the fact in my mind that the baby will not survive.

In the days and weeks, countless people told me “it will get easier.” Think positive. You still have two children. God loves her more. You are still young.

But, I still miss SAKUNTALA.