Thursday, March 19, 2009

WEDDING PLAN

Wedding is the most meaningful and memorable for every couple. I have came across many wedding were not planned well. At the end there are family clashes blaming each other.

1. One of my friend, she have organized a wedding. Trusted relation arranges her dinner catering. The food could possibly expired food cause of the smell. Many who came for the wedding went home empty stomach. Even the bride & groom sit there with empty stomach. She just could not take back her money. Cause the relation refuse to reveal the catering in charge name. furthermore she suspect he took commission. so, there goes an end of relation between them.

2. Last time only groom side wedding. Now bride also doing separate dinner. If they live outstation, it is a different matter. However, a relation of mine, both is neighbours. Groom book one hall and bride book another hall the next day. They invite the same guest. Definitely that is the dumbest arrangement I came across because the couple also having few same relation. Why can’t they share and do in same hall.

You may accept assistance, seek advice but make sure you have a trusted person to meet and help your arrangement. Above all the most important is Keep within your financial limits. Many fail to do that. Instead of seeking frens & relation to help on wedding, they seek for Loan.
VERY BAD IDEA. Marriage is to grow. Not to be a debtor. It only take one day but the money spend on unnecessary things.. I would like to list few things consider a waste

1. Ice sculptures
2. Bunting with couples photo
3. Grand Invitation Card

Will be much better having a modest wedding and saving the money for buying house or saving for rainy day. I agree this is a once-in-a-lifetime experience, Plan well, take your time and spend your money wisely.

Low budget wedding does not mean Cheap Wedding.


2 comments:

Bavani Mahen said...

i agree. For sure im going for budgeted wedding. The most important thing i want to make sure is the food to be excellent. No matter what, the food is the major thing guests looks into.
The rest items definitely can be arranged with lesser expense.
Anyway, i really liked the Abiyum Nanum wedding arrangement but the wedding at the registration is definitely not my way. I prefer it to be conducted in temple with relatives only but of course with few close frens.

Veni said...

Totally agree with you : )