LONELY

I wonder why suddenly I feel completely lonely. It’s like everyone is around me but they don’t seem to be close to me. I need a vacation!!

QUIT MY JOB

My Hubby Ask Me To Quit My job & Become a Housewife. He say I will have more time for my kids, for him and the most he highlight is keeping our home tidy.

It's something that I Should think long and hard. It's a tough decision. He says financially we are able to live on one income. Of course I always love to be able to quit my job and choose to stay home cause if I stay home, I would have all day to do other things that I may not have a chance to do because of work. you would be able to take on new hobbies and/or you would have more time to devote to your children and husband.

WILL IT BE A GOOD IDEA ?

CUTE COUPLE

Aarthi and Ganesh’s wedding took place at the Guruvayoorappan Temple on October 23rd, 2009 amidst close family and friends. The reception for the newly wed couple was held on October 25th in Chennai in which several film stars, directors and producers participated. The Chief Minister of Tamil Nadu, M Karunanidhi and Union Telecom Minister, A Raja also attended the wedding reception to greet the couple.

Aarthi,can be seen in many tamil films as comedy actress & Ganesh has been into films from his childhood days.Both of them have taken part in a reality dance show too as couple.Aarthi said that love blossomed between them only before 3 months & having getting the permission from their parents,the couple has decided to tie the knot.

They are a very cute couple. I wish the couple a very happy married life.

Deepavali Surprise

I like surprises especially if it's from loved one. And that is what I got yesterday. My hubby bought me a Punjabi suit. What made me more happy is that he picked a pink colour, which I was searching for this year deepavali. I am not sure if I ever mentioned to him about it. well, I feel the sweetest surprises are the most precious love. I will post the photo’s once I come back from deepavali leave. Until than, I Wish You All A Very Happy Deepavali.

My Deepavali Preparation

It is always a joy thinking that the Deepavali is near. It is a day where all gathers and at the same time partying. I started preparing two months ago, as in buying cards, cloths, cookies, and firecrackers. I know I shopped quite early, which is because I do not like to shop in crowd and rushing. I should finish my final shopping by this weekend which is to buy a Giordano pants for my hubby and this Saturday I will put up decorations.

This year deepavali, we got to wake up at 3 o’clock. Its because we have to go and have our oil bath before the sun gets up and it’s last Saturday for Portasi Sani whereby we should be in Perumal temple at 4.30am. Waking my kutties will be tough job for me, but with just a few firecrackers early morning could help me. I also plan to try carrot Halwa recipe which I got from http://arunathetemptations.blogspot.com/ .

Not forgetting that Today is the first anniversary of my blog Smiling Moon.

Sadness, Confusion, Hurt

There is time when things do not work out the way we wanted. I don’t know how to describe the feeling I’m going through now. Sadness, confusion, hurt. It is so hard to digest and comprehend things happened but I left with no option? I would love to carry on and just let it go by the way it happen. No point in getting it in more difficult situation. However, my heart is broken. I didn’t expect this. There is no choice given and the decision is firm enough to make me realize the meaning of it. Yes! Stay out of it. I understood well. What is going to happen next?

I tried to create a normal conversation but it sounds a little cold at the other end. I wonder if there is hope for healing a broken relation? Yes, I was angry. But why? isn’t it obvious that you were important to me. You didn't have to make critical remarks on me. It upset me deeply and I think I don’t deserve such words. You may highlight what you have done for me but I will never do the same to you.

Well, family to me is very important. I would never let them down. It is now and forever. We were questioned on why we did not give respect. All what I need to know is why Didn't we get it in the First Place? When he started it, you name the act as it’s his character. When we Defend our decision, you name us RUDE. I don’t think I OWE ANYONE AN APOLOGY!

I want you to know, deep down I want strong family bonds and ever lasting. I just wish u feel the same way. We still care for you.

Questions

Questions, which we will come across , whether you like it or not ..

21 years old - When I’m enjoying my single life “Yeppo Kalayanam”

22 Years Old - When I just got married “Eppo Baby”

23 years Old - Trying to be do well in mother job for my Prince “ eppo rendavethe”

24 Years Old - Give birth to my second prince “marepediyum annah ?? ponnu venama”

Now I’m 28 years old.. many ask me “Ponnu venumneh asai illeyah ?” ada kaduvileh… yen in the makkalgeh think panna mathikirangeh… Kasseh ennah maretheleyah kaikithe. Each step in life nowadays needs money. I am not financially stable.

Let me announce it here... May 2010 I will try for baby… I DON’T CARE IF ITS Boy or gal… but that will be the final. No more kids after that. please pray for me that I will get girl to put a full stop from makkal kekireh kelvikeh. I remember kamal said “kelvi kekirethe rombe easy…”

No Smoking

I have always felt smoking in public is disrespectful toward others. I’ve even seen many smokers throw cigarette butts outside their cars. There is once the butt land on my Car Front Screen when a truck Driver throw and he manage to give a smile instead of lift his hand up saying sorry.

I wish the government could consider my suggestion for those smoking in Public.

1. Give One Tight Slap
2. Throw bucket water at them
3. Never allow them into any shopping mall, restaurant or even going into Public Loo…

Any other suggestions?

Secret Box

Pardon me for not being around for sometime. nothing spark my mind on what to write.. so yesterday I thought of writing about my Secret Box.

Yes, I have a secret box and I Keep it in the dark. No one ever finds it. and I never shared even to close one about this Box. I don’t keep my SECRET LIFE. However, I keep notes of the Mistake I have done and when I need to admit it.

Why do I take time to admit? Good Question. No one realize who is the cause behind it. But I knew its me and don’t dare to admit. When few months or years passed, the matter won’t be a big thing to them. That is when I will admit. And most of the time, I get... “It’s ok... Its already passed... So cheer up” See what I mean.

There is one time I admit to a mistake, which I kept for 4 years. It took me longer to gain my guts because the pain is still there. When I did the mistake, many knew it but they don’t know why I did it. They hated me to maximum. The person who made me do it walk away without any guilt feeling. It is a long long long story and I do not want to drag it out.

When I opened my secret Box yesterday, I realize I have two more to go. But I have to add in another one. Maybe next year I will clear all out. Wish me Luck.

WAT HAPPEN !!!!!

LOOK AT PRABHU DEVA..

NOT WELL

I was lying in bed for one week having fever. It makes me feel so tired, unhappy and weak. I got it from one of my relation. He spread the illness to my whole family.

"No energy to write”
Until then take care, do pray for my health and my family.

Skinny

My greatest reaction is " OH MY GOD!!!! WAT HAVE U DONE TO URSELF MADONNA!!??"

BEFORE & AFTER

"HAPPINESS"

The reason I’m writing about happiness today is because many people whom I meet, whining about a small matters in life. It’s like they completely failed in life and nowhere to go. When they act such, they tend to forget true happiness in life. if these keep going they will never find true meaning of happiness life. Happiness is known well as cure of our daily problem. The happiness comes from you. It is something you create. However, bare in mind “Sometimes we're happy, sometimes we're not”. All depend in circumstances; we don't always succeed in each & every thing. Ask yourself, Are you a happy person? What makes you happy and what is not? List down and see the level of happiness balance. Above all, I understood Money cannot buy happiness, but it can only be used to support happiness. There is difference, Think!!!!!

A R Rahman : Mulumathy Avalathu

Listening to this song, makes me feel like falling in love again. smile to myself thinking of the closest person in the world to me (my hubby). credit goes to Rahman alone for these great scores...

Meena Wedding

When I tell my friends, they say.. at last.. she's married. and some say "i thought she will never get married".. What ever it is.. let us wish her a happy life ever after. I love her saree and accesories choice. Look simple.

Farewell Party

A farewell party took place last Sunday. I am so exited cause met few of my schoolmates. The party is for Ambika cause she is going NZ. I Wish her a every success..

MJ

I saw many blogs wrote about MJ and even posted his best songs, well ere goes mine.. This was taken at a wedding reception.

Long Lost Contact "Fren"

It was in 2004, 5 of us share car and go to work. Kath, Kasturi, Yoges, Jumma and me. We had a good time every day with jokes, cooking recipe, and grumble about our bosses. Until one day, I moved house near LRT station. Furthermore my house was far from the place Kath pick up. And Lrt made a convenient life for me as it’s just across my house. The last I saw all of them is on May 2005. I don’t know why but I never tend to call any of them. It’s been 4 years.

Yesterday meet one gal. she used to work at the parking lot, where we usually park the car. She knows all of us well. And she tells me .. Kath is now married N moved to Seremban. Kasturi husband always fall sick and she struggle to raise 4 kids on her own. Very strong lady. Yoges.. kidney failure. Last month admitted in ICU.. About Jumma she have no idea.

I feel very bad cause never keep in touch with them…. I need to meet them.

BODY MASS INDEX "BMI"

I have been going through this issue for past 6 years. So disappointed cause never been serious in doing exercise nor eating the right food. Kept saying I will loose but at the end, I have grown from L to XL… Now XL to XXL.

Three months back, I was so happy that I lost 2 kg.. but all in vain when my eating unhealthy food habit continuous. got to know from my sister that after the age of 30.. its hard to loose… it means I only have another 1 year to go.

Today onwards, I will stop talking or posting at my blog about my obesity. No point in talking when there is no action.

Maid Abuse Case

Her name is Siti Hajar from Garut, West Java, Indonesia.

Her Employer treated her worst than animals… I wonder what kind of human qualities does the employer have to prove she is still human and a mother of two kids. The maid only sleep 3 hours daily, not been paid any salary since the first month of her employment, Breakfast and dinner usually consisted of plain rice and water.

Illeana and Lakshmi Rai.. Which one is good looking..?
I have not see any movie of Illeana.. Seen her in Kedi song only. Not more than that, but Lakshmi Rai, yes. Vellithirai & Dhaam Dhoom. I can say she have a beautiful skin.
So tell me.. Which one attracts you... Please do not say none… or both… Pick one...

Desperate Housewife

I am a fan of Desperate Housewives. At first I hate it, but it has turned out be really funny and exciting. I get to find out more about the lives of women. how woman should be happy, strong, smart and brave.. All charaters had up and down of life.. The ladies show us PROBLEMS CAN BE OVERCOME...

Teri Hatcher as Susan Mayer
Felicity Huffman as Lynette Scavo
Marcia Cross as Bree Hodge
Eva Longoria Parker as Gabrielle Solis
Nicollette Sheridan as Edie Britt
Dana Delany as Katherine Mayfair

Among all the above character I love Gabrielle Solis. It's very funny to see her handle her husband and daughter.

Gabrielle makes Juanita exercise

LOVING WIFE

I attend a funeral on 26th May 2009. She is just 41 and died because of drinking poison. When I say drinking poison , many will ask why ?

The reason is a very long story. her husband found out that he have cancer and will live for 8 months only. He didn’t tell his wife. He arrange all the necessary documents , will and many more arrangement before his day come. However, this woman manages to find out. Could not bare the news she drank poison. Been admitted in hospital for a week. When someone loves their life partner so much.. of course they would not be able to bear the sad news.. But she supposed to think of her kids.. Her elder child is only 16... When I asked my hubby, will he hide from me? He say definitely… because he knows that I would cry day and night. I do not want to condemn on what she have done. I only can say all because of her love. Now the husband is more worried about his children. He have to start back from A. if only what the doctors say is not true... I’m very sure the doctor would be a death man..

One of my uncle also confirm having cancer. After that, he found out there is none. It has been 3 years since. And he still around. Alive,
May her soul rest in peace. That’s all I can say.

RAHUL DEV

plays the villain in Mazhai

Rahul Dev is an actor and former model. Rahul had been married to wife Rina since 11 years and they have a 10 yr old son... Siddarth.

Rina had been suffering from cancer for a very long time. She was under treatment.and unfortunately breathed her last on Saturday evening (May 16).

My condolence to Rahul Dev.

Unbuttoned Act

I’m sure many knows about unbuttoning Akshay & Twinkle story.

Due to the action, twinkle was arrested and bailed last month.

One of the models on the ramp stepped forward to unzip Akshay’s denims. But Akshay said no to her by waving his one finger and took everyone by surprise when he asked his wife to do so. Twinkle blushed momentarily, but Akshay took her hands and asked her to do the act.

According to Akshay “There is nothing wrong in it. And It’s great to be unbuttoned by your wife.”

WOW Akshay, you are absolutely true.. definitely there is nothing wrong.. But then, it supposed to happen in your bedroom. Between u and ur wife. where is your respect for her feelings, self worth and pride. i will have to say he behaved inappropriately and disrespectfully towards his wife in front of the audience.

I feel pity for you Twinkle. So, next time take the last seat when ur husband doing a walk on ramp. …. And I know u r still beside him cause Kallanalum kanavam.. pullananum puresen.. AM I Right, Frens ?

INFLUENZA A

Its very scary … especially with my wild imagination that after death we become ZOMBIE..
I know its kinda stupid thinking...

The Legend, 28 Weeks, Quarantine, resident evil and many more..
Oohhh God.. Why did I watch those movies in the first place?

Anyway, ere goes few info about Swine flu... take care and be careful.

What are the signs and symptoms of this virus in people?
The symptoms of this new H1N1 flu virus in people are similar to the symptoms of seasonal flu and include fever, cough, sore throat, runny or stuffy nose, body aches, headache, chills and fatigue. A significant number of people who have been infected with this virus also have reported diarrhea and vomiting. Also, like seasonal flu, severe illnesses and death has occurred as a result of illness associated with this virus.


Take these everyday steps to protect your health:
1. Cover your nose and mouth with a tissue when you cough or sneeze. Throw the tissue in the trash after you use it.

2. Wash your hands often with soap and water, especially after you cough or sneeze. Alcohol-based hand cleaners are also effective.

3.Avoid touching your eyes, nose or mouth. Germs spread this way.

4. Try to avoid close contact with sick people.

5.Stay home if you are sick for 7 days after your symptoms begin or until you have been symptom-free for 24 hours, whichever is longer. This is to keep from infecting others and spreading the virus further.

Bachchan Family

Father, Son, Daughter in law Showing middle finger ? Please don't mistake them” LOL…

They actually cast their vote for the final phase of LS election in Maharashtra. Just showing the finger saying they already cast a vote.. he he he …

BREAK

Will be back on 4th May 2009...

Hisssssssssssssssssssssss

Mallika Sherawat plays a snake woman, will express her emotions and feelings through body language and expressions. Mallika kind of freaked out when she was told that she had no lines. As an actress, she is used to convey her emotions and expressions through dialogues." Her make-up takes about five hours to be put on and she has to wear contact lenses, which resemble a snake’s eye, all day, which is a painful ordeal." The film is directed by Jennifer Lynch,

ARUNDHATI

Have you seen the movie...? I truly enjoyed, even scared to death when going to sleep. I could not remember when the last I saw a movie which lets the Actress to hold a strong character. Arundhati character has been picturised beautifully. Now they plan to remake it in Hindi. I hope they don’t spoil it like how they did in remake of Chandramukhi.

They wanted Anushka Sharma. She was perfect. But the producer was under the impression that she’s under contract with Yashraj Films. So, they might settle for the actress who played the lead in the Telugu Arundhati in Hindi. Coincidentally her name too is Anushka.” Her debut film in Tamil was Rendu with Madhavan.

I am a big fan of Anushka Shetty

Please do not move an inch for the scene whereby she perform special dance front of Pasupathi. I was mesmerized.

My Kids

THIS PHOTOS TAKEN ABOUT 2 YEARS AGO. JUST FEEL LIKE SHARING.

can't stop laughing!!

I don't know how true is this clip. Some say they fake it. Well, it’s very bad Laughing at the disabled.
But i have to Thank the god that I’m not one of the audience cause watching this clip make me laugh too.
Especially when the man says “DO WE HAVE TO CONTINUE. BECAUSE NOW I’D RATHER REMAIN SILENT.

Childhood Nickname

I cannot stop laughing as I am typing this topic. Well, when I say nick name.. I’m sure many out there have weird names at their childhood time. The names were given after our appearance, mistake we done, the way we talk and many aspects. When I was small gal... I hate the nickname given to me. Even I will chase the person who call me such just to give one bang on their head. Usually my sisters get the whacking. Cause my elder brother can punch me back. And I do remember how we “3 sisters” get beaten from our brother for calling him with his nickname. The teasing stopped when we reach an adult age. But that was funniest & Sweetest memory which makes me laugh.

many readers might wonder what my nickname was. I'm definitely not gonna tell cause that’s very embarrassing nick name. Anyhow, it's not worse than my other siblings… if they are reading this.. I’m sure they agree that they had the weirdest and irritating nick name. I would like to list down some of funny nicknames from my side. Definitely not my siblings. Don’t worry bro and sis’s... I will keep the secret.

1. muthere pundi (Pundi Kencing) bed-wetting.
2. Jamma kuude (Toilet Bowl) Funny right… he’s been called with this name because many say he born in toilet bowl. Actually, bathroom floor but people change the story to irritate him.
3. Konneh Kai (Crocket hand)
4. kai umbi (likes to suck Thumb)
5. konneh kondeh (crocket pony tail “hair”)
6. ayyah kunji (I’m not going to translate this),
7. kosseh mutheh ( Zero –always get zero in exam)

No entrance - Nayantara

Kumbakonam(TN), Apr 18 Hindu Makkal Katchi (HMK) today sent a parcel containing sari to south Indian film actress Nayanthara to protest against her visit to Killikavu Amman temple near Ottapalam in Kerala wearing salwar kameez.
The parcel, addressed to the actress, was sent to the Tamil Nadu South Indian Actors’ Association, HMK sources said.
Nayanthara, who went to the temple on Wednesday, was reportedly prevented from entering the temple by the authorities and devotees for ‘violating the dress code’ as women normally wear sari while entering temples in south India.
She was also reportedly asked to apologise before allowing her to leave the temple premises without worshipping.
HMK also ‘advised’ the actress to behave like a Tamil woman and not to degrade Tamil culture, the sources said.
HMK General Secretary Ramamurthy had last year filed a case against south Indian actress Kushboo for allegedly causing disrespect to the idols of Hindu goddess. - Agencies

For me as long the ladies does not expose their body. But of course i understand some temples comes with rules saying ladies strictly need to wear Saree. Very sad Nayanthrara cause her love for temples is well known & She makes it a point to visit all the famous temples near her locations.

Naomi Campbell

She's at Mumbai Fashion Show.

Naomi Look Gorgeous with Saree.

VACANCY AT BATU CAVES

An established company in Batu Caves invite potential candidates to join for the following positions:

1. ADMIN CLERK "PARTS DEPARTMENT"
At least 1 year relevant experience
must be computer literate with knowledge of MS Excel, word

2. DATA ENTRY CLERK "WORKSHOP DEPARTMENT"
Must be computer literate
minimum requirement SPM Graduates

3. STORE ASSISTANT "MALE"
At least 1 year relevant experience
minimum requirement SPM Graduates

Pls contact 03-6187 8000 or fax your resume to 03-6187 7000
email : hrm@quasar-industrial.com

This company is really looking for someone who can work. last month they advertise and recruit 2 new staff. not even a week they start work, they have show their true colour.. ponteng kerja without informing the management and next day can come to work with selamba face. They even fought with HR officer for the verbal warning given. Company have no choice but to terminate them. It cost lots of money to advertise in news paper. So please...... the company Seriously looking for someone who can work.

PROVOKE & VIDESH

Provoked - Aishwarya Rai.... Videsh - Preity Zinta

Both movies are about Violence Against Women. Please understand that we (women) do not deserve to be beaten. I have watched Provoked Now looking forward to see Videsh.

CINDIAN

I have sign up a membership with California Fitness and took fitness trainer for 12 sessions. His name is Ananda. training with him sometimes tough sometimes he go easy. Very nice guy.

He is actually a cindian. Same goes to me too. He ask me this question.. Why do all Cindian gals married to Indian Guy. That is when I started to dig my relation and frens listing of cindian gal. To my surprised, they all married to an Indian guy. Actually nothing, wrong with it, according to Anand. However, there must be a particular reason.

I agree… but I do not know. All I know is I am still madly in love with my hubby.

WEDDING PLAN

Wedding is the most meaningful and memorable for every couple. I have came across many wedding were not planned well. At the end there are family clashes blaming each other.

1. One of my friend, she have organized a wedding. Trusted relation arranges her dinner catering. The food could possibly expired food cause of the smell. Many who came for the wedding went home empty stomach. Even the bride & groom sit there with empty stomach. She just could not take back her money. Cause the relation refuse to reveal the catering in charge name. furthermore she suspect he took commission. so, there goes an end of relation between them.

2. Last time only groom side wedding. Now bride also doing separate dinner. If they live outstation, it is a different matter. However, a relation of mine, both is neighbours. Groom book one hall and bride book another hall the next day. They invite the same guest. Definitely that is the dumbest arrangement I came across because the couple also having few same relation. Why can’t they share and do in same hall.

You may accept assistance, seek advice but make sure you have a trusted person to meet and help your arrangement. Above all the most important is Keep within your financial limits. Many fail to do that. Instead of seeking frens & relation to help on wedding, they seek for Loan.

VERY BAD IDEA. Marriage is to grow. Not to be a debtor. It only take one day but the money spend on unnecessary things.. I would like to list few things consider a waste

1. Ice sculptures
2. Bunting with couples photo
3. Grand Invitation Card

Will be much better having a modest wedding and saving the money for buying house or saving for rainy day. I agree this is a once-in-a-lifetime experience, Plan well, take your time and spend your money wisely.

Low budget wedding does not mean Cheap Wedding.

BEWARE : CAMERA PHONES

It is a bad idea of taking nude pictures of themselves or their loved one. Or else they have to face the consequences. Of course, sometimes it just happens without our knowledge. Like what had happen to Elizabeth Wong. I sympathize her but what has happen cannot be undone now.

got this comic from THESTAR

DRIVING

I hate to hear man address woman as terrible drivers... But seeing this clip, I started laughing loudly. Especially the parking. Thank god, I am not one of them… LOL

I Don't Blame Man. :)

I’m Suprised

Gabungan Persatuan Penulis Nasional (Gapena) hari ini memfailkan laporan polis berhubung pelaksanaan dasar Pengajaran dan Pembelajaran Sains dan Matematik dalam Bahasa Inggeris (PPSMI) di Ibu Pejabat Polis Daerah Brickfields tengah hari tadi.

Berasaskan kepada kehendak Perkara 152(1) & 6 Perlembagaan Persekutuan dan Seksyen 17(1) Akta Pendidikan 1996, adalah wajib bagi semua mata pelajaran yang diajar di semua sekolah menggunakan bahasa Melayu.

got the info from this link...
http://www1.mstar.com.my/cerita.asp?file=/2009/2/15/mstar_berita/20090215180803&sec=mstar_berita

I feel there’s nothing wrong with language change"FROM MALAY TO ENGLISH".. Don't you think it would be great if all could speak english. especially children from rural side.

still if go back to bahasa kebangsaan .. i'm sure it will cost more on those changes. Who is standing at loosing side ? THINK.

LOL

2nd February 2009
The Good news is I have lost 1 kg for the month of January 09. I feel good and have the confident to reduce more. need to spend more time on exercise and control my food. Especially rice at night.

9th February 2009
I have taken pal Kodaam and donate blood at thaipusam. . When I almost reaching the steps on top.. There was Volcano bursting inside my head. My eyes spinning uncontrollably cause of dizziness. In addition, this tourist keep taking my pictures, I could not show a reaction of being cool taking milk kodaam. Right at that time I point my finger at my face and say “inthe onekeh theveyah” . this is my first attempt taking pal kodam at Batu Malai.

14th February 2009
Had a great time at Midvalley DOME. After dinner, we went to see movie. "HOUSE"… the movie seems to be boring.. but that inchi inchi was nice. I mean from both of us.. LOL. didn’t wish early.. so sorry… happy belated valentine.

Thaipusam Blood Donation Campaign 2009

The Thaipusam Blood Donation Campaign 2009 is back to serve the mankind.

Details as follows:

Venue: Opposite Bt Caves Main Entrance (below the flyover)

Time:

Day 1 : 7th Feb 09 (Sat) ; 3pm to 3am (next day) [13 hours]

Day 2 : 8th Feb 09 (Sun) ; 6am to 6pm [12 hours]

Day 3 : 9th Feb 09 (Monday) ; 8am to 3pm [7 hours]

Organized by: Sathya Sai Baba Centres of KL/Selangor supported by National Blood Bank & Majlis Perbandaran Selayang.

Volunteers are welcomed.For further info please call: 012-3543726 (Suresh) or email at info@helpever.net

I will be there on 7th Feb 2009 at 4p.m to donate Blood.

Kugan died in custody

I am back.
Even though I’M busy, I never fail to follow on kugan news. It did scare me a little. More ever when I’m looking at my two son. I mean… who will not.
Does The Police misusing their power? I really have no idea. I am not going to end this topic under racist subject, which I hate to MAX.

Seeing the violence at Mumbai, Palestine, Thailand, and Sri Lanka... I do feel secured being in Malaysia. I also pray our country do not end in such violence.

Than I came across an article about a 28 years old man at China. His name is Yang Jia. He entered a police station and went on a stabbing spree. The reason behind his act is that he was taken into custody in 2007. Suspected that he had a stolen bicycle that he had actually rented. Later he accused Shanghai Police of beating him but his complaints and demands for compensation went unheeded. He did not attack the policeman whom he had accused beating him. Instead had killed “AS A PROTEST AGAINST THE SYSTEM”. During his trial, he had challenge the presiding judge by saying “THE POLICE DARE TO DO SO BECAUSE YOU ARE BEHIND THEM”.

Don’t u people think... Government should take serious action on this case. Just to avoid any Yang Gia rise in our country.

Gong Xi Fa Chai

This year is the year of the Ox, the second animal of 12 animals in the Chinese Zodiac after the rat.

The year of the Ox is going to be hard work to put right the wrongs of previous years. There will be no room for laziness this year, the rules are simple – you work hard and in time you will be rewarded. This is the year to put all your finances in order – whether it is trying to tackle the mountain of credit card debt or putting more money aside for a rainy day.

The Ox is often considered as slow and methodical, but this is the type of panacea we need to get our house in order and life back on track. The Ox is the quintessential cleaner-upper and will turn chaos back into order. Tradition is important to the Ox and making sure that everyone abides by the rules, means there is little room for shortcut takers and mavericks – who've reeked havoc in the past few years. This year requires all creatures of the zodiac to adopt the patient and controlled nature of the Ox in order to really succeed and to make good any of the opportunities presented to them.

Anyone born this year is considered to belong to the most reliable and diligent of all Oxen – the Earth Ox. The Earth element is believed to balance out many of the negative characteristics of the Ox that are the tendencies to be stubborn, shy (and general unwillingness to be social), snobby and inflexible. The Earth Ox show good judgement, reliability, sincerity and modesty, they are also compassionate and loyal to family and friends.

BUSY

HAPPY PONGAL

it is not easy forgiving someone
Especially, when you knew the difficulty faced in life because of that person.
It took me three years to forgive.
Damn hard but I know I have too.
I know im hurting the most important person feeling by accepting him into my life.
How could you forgive him when he let u bear the weight on your shoulders alone.
It’s not fair for you… I understand
But I learn to forgive before it is too late.

FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART, I'M SORRY AMMA.

N I LOVE YOU.. HAPPY PONGGAL

Bhanurekha Ganesan

Even at the age of 54 (Born on 10 October 1954) . She is surely looking better than many actresses.

female's out there.. Stop worrying about your age ..

If you put in little effort you will look great as she does too. control ur food & have more fashion sense.

GOOD LUCK...